What Kind of Love Is Waiting for You | Your Hidden Love Script Test

I. What Is a 'Love Script'?

Everyone carries a hidden 'love script' written jointly by your upbringing, core needs and emotional patterns. This script determines who attracts you, what role you play in a relationship, and what emotional ending you head toward.

This script often operates without your awareness: some people repeatedly fall into similar conflicts, some always feel 'just a step short of falling in love', while others naturally move toward mutually nourishing relationships. This test will help you identify your love script type.

II. The Core Theories Behind the Test Design

This test integrates three famous psychological theories of intimate relationships to help you understand your love gravity more fully:

• John Bowlby's attachment theory: Early interactions with caregivers form our attachment style (secure, anxious, avoidant), which profoundly shapes intimate relationship patterns in adulthood. For example, people with anxious attachment often long to get close yet fear being abandoned, while avoidant types tend to keep emotional distance.
• Eric Berne's life script theory within transactional analysis (TA): In childhood, everyone writes a 'life script' for themselves, and this script shapes how we see ourselves, others and the nature of relationships. The love script is the concrete expression of the life script in intimate relationships.
• Robert Sternberg's triangular theory of love: Perfect love consists of three elements - intimacy (emotional bonding), passion (attraction) and commitment (the decision to maintain the relationship). Different love scripts tend to emphasize different combinations of these elements.

Based on these theories, this test will reveal the love gravity most active in your subconscious and predict the type of love story you are most likely to attract or move toward.

III. The Six Love Script Types in the Results

Based on your core conflicts and hidden expectations, the result will point to one of the following six love scripts:

• 🌟 Star Script: a growth-oriented love of mutual illumination - You long to grow together in love, each becoming a star for the other, both independent and intimate.
• 🏡 Harbor Script: a healing love that seeks stability - You yearn for warm, peaceful companionship and long for a safe harbor that can hold all your vulnerability.
• 🔥 Fireworks Script: an experiential love that chases passion - You are drawn to intense emotional tension and dramatic encounters, and your love burns like fireworks.
• 🧩 Puzzle Script: a complementary love in search of wholeness - You tend to be drawn to people different from yourself, believing they can complete the parts you are missing.
• ⚖️ Contract Script: a rational, pragmatic love of partnership - You see love as an important partnership in life, valuing stability, responsibility and shared goals.
• 🌊 Deep Current Script: an independent, spiritual love - You need a partner who understands your inner world without binding you, a love like a deep, still current.

IV. Why Is This Test Worth Taking?

This test is not meant to label you, but to:

• Reveal what traits and relationship patterns attract you subconsciously
• Understand the similar difficulties or patterns you keep meeting in love
• Discover a better-suited emotional direction you may have overlooked
• Provide a basis of self-knowledge for your next crush or for adjusting a relationship

Who it is for: people who are hoping for love but feel lost, people who want to understand their emotional patterns, and people who want to know themselves better within relationships.

V. Test Structure and Scoring

This test has 15 items, each with 5 options, ranging from 'strongly disagree' to 'strongly agree'. The items assess multiple dimensions including love gravity, conflict expectations, ideal interaction and relationship beliefs. Based on your choices, the system will calculate your tendency toward each of the six love scripts, output the script type that best matches your current psychological state, and include a detailed interpretation and growth advice.