Lee's Color Personality: Your Attitude Toward Love

1. Theoretical Basis: John Alan Lee's Color Theory of Love

This test is based on "The Color Wheel Theory of Love" proposed by psychologist John Alan Lee (John Alan Lee). He believed that love is not a single emotion but is composed of six basic "colors". These six styles represent people's different core needs and behavior patterns in intimate relationships.

• Passionate (Eros):Values physical attraction and passion, pursuing "love at first sight".
• Game-Playing (Ludus):Sees love as a game, enjoys the chase, and avoids commitment.
• Friendship (Storge):Emotions develop slowly, built on trust and friendship.
• Dependent (Mania):Wide emotional swings, an intense desire to possess, and anxiety about gains and losses.
• Pragmatic (Pragma):Rational and practical, seeking a partner whose conditions match and who is suited to daily life.
• Selfless (Agape):Gives selflessly and is willing to sacrifice oneself for the other person's growth.

2. Why Understand Your Attitude Toward Love?

Often, our pain in love is not because we do not love, but because we are on a "different frequency". Understanding your dominant love color helps you:

• Understand your instinctive reactions and needs in intimate relationships
• Identify why past relationships always fell into similar predicaments
• Judge your compatibility with a potential partner (complementary or similar)
• Adjust your way of relating to reduce unnecessary misunderstanding and internal friction

3. The Six Dimensions of This Test

This test contains 18 scenario questions covering the six attitudes toward love above. Please note that most people are not just one color but a blend of several colors.

• Passion and Spark:Are you easily attracted by appearance or intense chemistry?
• Freedom and Boundaries:Are you afraid of losing yourself and inclined to keep your distance?
• Companionship and Stability:Do you believe that love is the companionship of a slow, steady stream?
• Dependence and Anxiety:Are you easily thrown into emotional swings by the other person's every move?
• Reality and Consideration:Do you evaluate the other person's conditions and future before falling in love?
• Sacrifice and Devotion:Do you put the other person's needs above your own?

4. Who Is It For

• Couples in the ambiguous stage who want to know their compatibility
• People who have been repeatedly hurt in love and want to find the reason
• Explorers interested in the psychology of romantic relationships
• Partners who want to improve the quality of their intimate relationship

5. Scoring and Result Interpretation

Each question is scored 1-5; the higher the score, the more pronounced the trait in that dimension. The system will calculate, based on your score distribution across the six dimensions, yourcore love colorandsecondary color, and map out your own unique "love spectrum".