Love Styles Test | Discover the Intimate Relationship Path That Fits You Best

1. What Are Love Styles?

Love Styles were proposed by psychologist John Alan Lee in The Colors of Love, he believed that love is not a single form but a spectrum composed of many 'colors'. Everyone has a preferred pattern in intimate relationships, which determines how you express love, how you expect to be loved, and how you handle conflict.

This theory divides love into six core styles:

• Eros (Passionate Love): Focuses on physical attraction and passion, chasing the spark of 'love at first sight'.
• Ludus (Game-Playing Love): Treats love as entertainment, likes to keep distance, and refuses to be tied down.
• Storge (Friendship Love): Slow to warm up but steady; love grows out of deep friendship and trust.
• Mania (Possessive Love): Emotionally volatile, craving intense attention and security.
• Agape (Altruistic Love): Selflessly giving, prioritizing the partner's needs and growth.
• Pragma (Pragmatic Love): Rational and pragmatic, valuing compatibility and long-term fit.

2. Why Do You Need to Know Your Love Style?

Many emotional conflicts are not caused by 'not loving' but by 'not understanding'. For example, an 'Agape' partner may feel wronged from giving too much, while a 'Ludus' partner may simply want to take things easy, yet is misunderstood as not being serious enough.

Understanding your dominant style can help you:

• Identify your core needs and hidden landmines in relationships
• Understand your partner's logic of behavior and reduce unnecessary misunderstandings
• Know more clearly, while single, what kind of dynamic suits you
• Avoid falling into the loop of 'trying so hard yet never getting love right'

3. The Six Dimensions of This Test

Based on John Alan Lee's theoretical framework, this test features 18 scenario questions covering the following six dimensions:

• Eros Dimension: Are you easily driven by appearance or strong physical attraction?
• Ludus Dimension: Do you tend to stay independent and avoid committing too early?
• Storge Dimension: Do you believe trust and companionship are the cornerstones of love?
• Mania Dimension: Do you easily feel anxious or insecure in love?
• Agape Dimension: Are you willing to sacrifice your own interests for your partner's happiness?
• Pragma Dimension: Do you rationally assess your partner's qualifications and future plans?

4. Purpose of the Test and Who It Suits

This test suits anyone who wants to improve the quality of their intimate relationships, especially:

• People often puzzled by 'why my relationships always fail'
• People who want to see their true selves in intimate relationships
• People in a relationship who want to deepen mutual understanding
• People interested in the psychology of emotions and personality matching

5. How Scoring Works

Each question is scored from 1 to 5, from 'not like me at all' to 'exactly like me'. The system will calculate your scores across the six dimensions and identify yourdominant love styleandauxiliary style, and finally generate your own 'love roadmap'.